How to Determine What Hairstyle Suits You ?

Let’s be real for a sec figuring out what hairstyle suits you isn’t just about flipping through a few Instagram posts and pointing at the one that looks cool. If it were that easy, I wouldn’t have spent my teenage years rocking a hairstyle that made me look like a confused pineapple.

But hey, you’re here now, which means you’re ready to make smart hair decisions. And I’m here to walk you through it like a friend who actually tells you when something looks weird on you (because we all need that friend).

Face Shape: The Haircut Dealbreaker

Ever tried a haircut that looked on your favorite celeb but totally flopped on you? Yeah… probably a face shape mismatch. Your face shape is everything when it comes to finding your ideal style.

How to Figure Out Your Face Shape

Grab a mirror, pull your hair back, and take a good look:

Oval: Balanced and slightly longer than wide (Congrats, you can pull off almost anything. Show-off.)
Round: Cheeks are full, and width equals length. (Go for length and angles!)
Square: Strong jawline, equal width all around. (Structure meets style.)
Heart: Wider forehead, narrow chin. (Volume helps balance it.)
Diamond: Narrow forehead and jaw, wide cheekbones. (Soft layers are your BFF.)
Long (aka Oblong): It’s like an oval, but stretched out. (Add width, not height.)

Pro tip: If you’re not sure where you land, snap a pic and trace your face with a marker on your phone screen (don’t worry, it wipes off… hopefully).

Hair Texture: Because Not All Hair Plays Nice

Let’s not ignore the fact that your hair might have a mind of its own. Some styles look cute in theory but are a straight-up disaster when your hair texture rebels.

Know Your Hair Type

Straight: Smooth, but can fall flat. Add volume or movement.
Wavy: Natural bend great for beachy vibes.
Curly: Bold and bouncy. Structure is key.
Coily: Beautifully dense and full. Needs moisture and shape.

IMO, working with your texture rather than forcing it into submission is a game-changer. Like, why straighten curls every day when curls are already amazing?

Lifestyle Check: Lazy or Low-Maintenance?

Be honest. Are you gonna style your hair every morning? Or are you more of a “let’s hope dry shampoo saves the day” kind of person?

Questions to Ask Yourself:

How much time will I really spend styling?
Do I sweat a lot (gym rat or nervous wreck both count)?
Do I want a look that grows out nicely?
Am I willing to commit to trims every 4–6 weeks?

FYI: Low-maintenance doesn’t mean boring. It just means you’re smart enough to choose something that doesn’t ruin your mood at 8 a.m.

Personality Matters: Are You a Rockstar or a Romantic?

Hair is personal. Some people want to look edgy. Others want something soft and romantic. Neither is wrong but knowing what you want matters more than copying someone else’s vibe.

Think About This:

Do you like standing out or blending in?
Are you bold with fashion or more chill?
Do you prefer timeless classics or trendy experiments?

Your hairstyle is low-key your identity on display. Own it.

Try Before You Cry: Use a Virtual Hairstyle App

Let me say this louder: TRY. IT. FIRST.

There are free apps like YouCam Makeup or FaceApp that let you test hairstyles on your photo. Yes, some of them are a little janky, but at least you won’t be surprised when that pixie cut makes you look like a confused mushroom.

Ask the Right People (Not Just Your Mom)

Don’t get me wrong, your mom loves you. But she probably still thinks your bowl cut from 3rd grade was adorable.

Better Opinions to Seek:

Your hairstylist (duh—they’ve seen it all)
A brutally honest friend
Forums or subreddits like r/malehairadvice or r/femalehairadvice

Also, sometimes random strangers on Reddit give better advice than your entire friend group. Just saying.

Hairstyle Cheat Sheet Based on Face Shape

Here’s a little cheat code to match your face shape to flattering styles:

Oval: Almost anything works (layers, bangs, buzzcuts—go wild)
Round: Long layers, side parts, height at the crown (skip blunt cuts)
Square: Soft waves, side-swept bangs, layered cuts
Heart: Chin-length bobs, side parts, curtain bangs
Diamond: Volume at the crown, fringe, soft textures
Long: Waves, layered cuts, avoid too much height

Bold rule of thumb: Balance is key. If your face is wide, add length. If it’s long, add width. If it’s perfect… then maybe let the rest of us catch up.

My Personal Hair Crisis (And What I Learned)

So, story time: I once chopped my hair into a sleek bob because a YouTuber made it look chic AF. What I didn’t account for? I have wavy, thick hair with zero patience for heat styling.

Result: Triangle hair. Like, actual pyramid shape. It scarred me.

Lesson? Don’t pick styles that require a version of you that doesn’t exist. I learned to love layered cuts that work with my natural texture. Life’s easier now. Hair’s better too.